Let’s take advantage of the introduction to go over some fundamental ideas again: the hijab is more than just a piece of cloth; it’s an act of worship, a declaration of faith, and a profound connection with Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala. Wearing hijab is a commandment, a sign of modesty, and a protection, as Allah says in the Quran:
“O Prophet, tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to bring down over themselves [part] of their outer garments. That is more suitable that they will be known and not be harmed. And ever is Allah Forgiving and Merciful.”
Perhaps you’ve been contemplating wearing the hijab, feeling a pull towards it, but you’re unsure where to begin.
Or maybe you’re a parent guiding your daughter on this path.
This is a normal and beautiful juncture in the life of a Muslim woman. But how do you begin this transition to hijab?
How Do I Know If I’m Ready to Wear Hijab?
Let’s begin with readiness. Actually, readiness isn’t a feeling that magically appears. As I see it, readiness is a matter of disciplining yourself to do what’s right and follow the truth, even when it’s hard.
There’s no checklist or exam to pass here! It’s about a connection to your faith, and a desire to please Allah (SWT). With the age of puberty, you may find yourself drawn to prayer, reading Quran, learning more about Islam, and striving to implement its teachings in your life. That means you are READY.
With the age of puberty, you may also feel a natural inclination towards dressing modestly, even before considering the hijab. You’re aware of your awrah (parts of the body that should be covered) and feel comfortable concealing it. That means you are READY.
Actually, asking about the hijab in the first place shows you’re ready for it, but something else is holding you back. You feel a persistent “nudge” or desire to wear the hijab. This inner voice is often a sign of Allah’s guidance.
But still, it would be good to ask yourself these questions.
- Do I understand why am I wearing Hijab? The hijab is a response to Allah’s command:
“Tell the believing women to… draw their head-coverings over their chests…”
It’s not cultural attire but an act of taqwa (God-consciousness).
You’re not wearing hijab to please your parents, friends, or society. You’re doing it because you believe in it and want to follow Allah’s guidance.
- Am I prepared for internal growth? The hijab is as much about inner modesty (lowering the gaze, guarding speech) as outer covering.
- Do I fear judgment? It’s normal! Even legendary women like Khadijah (ra) faced societal pressures. Lean on Allah’s promise:
“And whoever fears Allah – He will make for him of his matter ease.”
(Quran 65:4).
- Am I Prepared for the Challenges? You’re aware that wearing hijab might come with some challenges, like questions from others, adjustments to your wardrobe, or even potential discrimination in some places. But you’re willing to face those challenges for the sake of Allah.
Don’t wait for “perfect” readiness, as feelings can fluctuate.
How to start wearing a hijab?
Deciding to wear a hijab is a blessed path, and you can do it in a way that feels good and that you can keep up with. Here’s how do you transition to hijab:
1. Understand Hijab Purpose and Significance in Islam
Before starting to wear hijab, it’s important to understand its purpose and significance in Islam.
- Hijab is a Divine Command (Fard – Obligation). Wearing hijab is an act of obedience to Allah and His Messenger.
- Hijab is intrinsically linked to modesty. The external hijab is a reflection of inner modesty and helps in creating a modest environment.
- Hijab is seen as a protection for women, safeguarding their dignity and preventing women from being objectified or harassed.
- Hijab serves as a visible marker of Muslim identity.
2. Learn the Conditions of Proper Hijab
Also, learn what constitutes proper hijab according to Islamic guidelines. This includes:
- Coverage: The extent of the body that needs to be covered. Islamic scholars specify covering everything except the face and hands.
- Looseness: The hijab should not be tight or body-hugging, but rather loose enough to conceal the shape of the body.
- Thickness: The fabric should be thick enough to not be see-through.
- Simplicity: The hijab should not be overly decorative or attract unnecessary attention.
- Modesty: The overall intention of hijab is modesty, both in dress and behavior.
3. Wear a Hijab for Allah’s Sake Only
Your primary motivation should be to please Allah and obey His commands. Hijab is an act of worship. Ensure your intention is sincere and solely for God.
While encouragement from family and community is positive, your decision should be personal and driven by your faith, not solely by social pressure or trends.
4. Gather Hijabs and Modest Clothing
Invest in a variety of hijabs (scarves) in different colors, fabrics, and styles that you find comfortable and that suit your personal style within Islamic guidelines.
Ensure you have modest clothing that complements your hijab, such as loose-fitting tops, long skirts, or dresses.
Learn Hijab Styles
Explore different hijab styles through online tutorials and videos. YouTube and other platforms have numerous tutorials on hijab styles and dressing modestly.
Find styles that are modest, comfortable, and practical for your daily activities.
There are Islamic clothing stores that offer a range of hijabs and modest clothing options. Search for it.
5. Prepare Yourself Mentally and Emotionally
Make sure your intention for wearing the hijab is sincerely for the sake of Allah and to please Him. This intention will help you remain steadfast in your commitment.
Wearing hijab is an act of worship that requires patience and perseverance. You may encounter challenges or feel self-conscious initially, but remember your intention and the reward in following Islamic guidance.
Connect with Muslim Women Wearing Hijab
Talk to Muslim women who wear hijab in your family, community, or online who wear hijab. They can offer advice, encouragement, and practical tips based on their experiences.
6. Wear Hijab at Home First
Begin by wearing hijab at home, even when no non-mahram men are present. This helps you get used to the feeling and manage different types of scarves and styles.
Share your decision with your family and close friends so they can offer support and understanding.
Then, Wear Hijab in Public
If you feel ready to start wearing hijab fully, that is great and commendable, go for it and may Allah help and reward your strength in the truth.
However, if it is difficult for you in your community, and you feel gradualism can be helpful, then go for it. You can start by wearing hijab in specific situations, like going to the mosque, Islamic gatherings, or when visiting relatives. Gradually expand the situations until you are comfortable wearing it consistently in public.
7. Pray to Allah for Guidance and Ease
Ask Allah to make your transition to hijab easy, to grant you steadfastness, and to accept this act of worship from you. Du’a is a powerful tool for seeking Allah’s help in all matters.
8. Remind Yourself that Hijab is an Honor
Remember that hijab is an act of honor and dignity in Islam. Wear it with pride and confidence as a Muslim woman.
Reflect on the blessings and benefits of wearing hijab – increased modesty, closeness to Allah, and a stronger sense of Islamic identity.
What Age Should a Girl Start Wearing Hijab?
In Islam, the hijab becomes obligatory once a girl reaches bulugh (puberty), marked by physical changes or age (around 9–15 years, depending on individual development).
The Prophet said,
“The pen is lifted from three people: a child until they reach puberty…”
This means accountability begins at maturity.
Puberty marks the transition from childhood to adulthood in Islamic law, and with it come religious responsibilities, including prayer, fasting, and hijab. Puberty is determined by Islamic signs, which include:
- Menstruation: The onset of menstruation is a clear sign of puberty for girls.
- Wet Dream (Nocturnal Emission): This is also a sign of puberty.
- Growth of Pubic Hair: This is another physical indicator.
- Age of 15: If none of the above signs are apparent, a girl is considered to have reached puberty at the age of 15 according to the Islamic lunar calendar.
However, parents are encouraged to gently introduce the concept of Hijab earlier. This is often seen as a positive step for:
- It helps girls become accustomed to wearing hijab before it becomes obligatory.
- It cultivates a sense of modesty and Islamic identity from a young age.
Note: It’s important to distinguish between practice and obligation. A girl practicing hijab before puberty is commendable and encouraged, but she is not sinful if she doesn’t wear it before puberty. The obligation begins upon reaching puberty. So, do not force the young girls on hijab, just convince them and let them choose freely.
Final Word
Dear sister, we get that wearing the hijab in Western societies right now can be a big challenge, but remember, Muslim sisters are all around to lend a hand and stand by you, if that’s what you want.
May Allah make it easy for you, grant you steadfastness, and accept it from you as an act of worship. May your hijab be a source of strength, protection, and closeness to Allah. Ameen.
Remember to constantly seek knowledge from authentic Islamic resources and rely on Allah for strength and guidance throughout this blessed endeavor.
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